The Better Part (16th Sunday Ordinary C)

Today’s Gospel (Luke 10:38–42) brings us into the warm and familiar home of two sisters: Martha and Mary. Jesus, their beloved friend, comes to visit, and like any of us welcoming a guest—especially someone as special as the Lord!—there’s excitement, preparation, and, yes, a bit of stress. We can picture Martha bustling about: checking the bread, stirring the pot, setting the table. And Mary? She’s doing something unexpected… she's just sitting there—at Jesus’ feet—listening.

And suddenly, we find ourselves drawn into this quiet tension between action and stillness, between doing and being. Between Martha and Mary.

Listening to Jesus is our first call. The Gospel tells us that Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he was saying” (v. 39). This wasn't laziness or avoidance. In fact, in the culture of the time, sitting at the feet of a rabbi meant something very specific—it meant being a disciple.

Mary wasn’t simply relaxing; she was learning, absorbing, contemplating. She was fully present to Jesus. And what’s so beautiful is that Jesus welcomes this. He defends her choice. That was radical in His time—and it still is.

So here’s the question for us: Are we listening to Jesus? Or are we so busy—even with good things—that we miss His voice?

In our world of constant noise, notifications, and to-do lists, this Gospel is a gentle call back to what matters most. Maybe the most loving thing we can do today is turn off our phones, open the Scriptures, sit in silence, and just be with Him.

Even good work can distract. Now, let’s be clear: Martha wasn’t doing anything wrong. She was serving! She was being responsible! But notice what Jesus says:

“Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things” (v. 41).

He doesn’t scold her for working—He lovingly points out that her worry is distracting her from what matters most. The original Greek word for “distracted” literally means “to be pulled apart.” Can anyone relate?

Sometimes we are so busy doing things for Jesus, we forget to spend time with Him. This is especially true for those in ministry, those caring for family, those working multiple jobs to make ends meet. Like Martha, we may be faithful—but also stressed out.

Jesus isn’t telling us to stop working—He’s inviting us to work from a place of peace, not panic. From communion, not compulsion.

So, choose the better part. Jesus concludes, “Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her” (v. 42).

What Mary chose wasn’t the only good thing, but it was the better thing. And what is that better part? It’s being with Jesus. It’s the eternal treasure of knowing and loving God. All our work will one day pass—but the relationship we build with Christ will last forever.

This “better part” is not about doing less—it’s about living from the center. From the heart of Christ.

We are all both Martha and Mary. And the challenge is to find the balance: to serve like Martha, yes—but to listen like Mary. To be active in the world, but rooted in prayer. To move through life not frantic and fragmented, but focused on the One Thing Necessary.