Feb 18, 2012

Faith and Friendship (7th Sunday Ordinary B)


I met a doctor in a convention.  Her commitment to the service of God’s Kingdom was amazing.  Later, her testimonies revealed to me that she was not always that way.  She used to be a typical product of modernity believing more in her medical expertise than in God.  She used to treat her patients as mere bodies with illness. Compassion was not her virtue. She would treat them only if the price was right. What changed her was the invitation of her friends to join a religious organization. Gradually, with the support of the organization she encountered God and henceforth became a different person.  She began to see her medical profession as an opportunity to serve the poor.  For countless times, she called on her colleagues to organize medical outreach programs in order to serve those who had no means to visit the hospitals. She would diagnose and prescribe medicines but deep inside her she would pray for the healing of her patients. “I will always look back with gratitude to that time when my friends led me to discover God in my life,” she exclaimed.

Faith, as a response to God, is necessarily personal.  It cannot be vicarious.  But almost always, we seldom realize, we come to an encounter with God not on our own strength and capacity but through the help of other people, of our family or friends who are there to lead us or just support us when we are yet weak.  While God waits for our personal response to Him, He does recognize the faith of the community to where we belong and allows that faith to work “miracles” in awakening our own faith.

In today’s gospel reading (Mk 2: 1-12), we hear the story of a paralytic whom Jesus forgives and cures on account of the faith of his friends:  While He was delivering God’s word to them, some people arrived bringing a paralyzed man to him. The four who carried him were unable to bring him to Jesus because of the crowd, so they began to open up the roof over the spot where Jesus was. When they had made a hole, they let down the mat on which the paralytic was lying. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, “My son, your sins are forgiven.” 

A paralyzed man could not, by himself, approach Jesus who was surrounded by a crowd who, perhaps, were pushing and shoving to get near him.  Surely, he needed people to carry him to Jesus.  Blessed was this man who had with him some committed friends who were ready to do just everything to allow him that life-changing encounter with the Lord. On many other healing occasions, Jesus required the faith of the person.  In this particular event, Jesus was moved by the faith of the friends. So, “when Jesus saw their faith,” He forgave him and made him whole again.

People are spiritually paralyzed by sin. This generation has been so inured by the gross immoralities around that it has lost its sense of sin. All the more that people do not care about their spiritual life. This is paralysis. The gospel then is an invitation for many of us to cultivate such “faith of the friends” of the paralytic and be able to embark on a mission to reach out to those who cannot approach the Lord on their own. 

Cultivating in us the faith of the paralytic’s friends may entail, among many others, two things:  Acquiring empathy and developing committed action.

The faith of the friends certainly was characterized by empathy.  This is sensitivity to the needs of the paralyzed friend who is unable to act on his own.  Oftentimes, we are consumed by our own spiritual needs; we fail to understand the struggle of people around us.  We don’t see that people around us could use our support.  Developing empathy increases our capacity to see beyond our own needs.  This allows us to understand the needs of other people and so to put aside our own agenda and take on as our own those of others who silently cry for support.

Clearly a faith characterized by empathy leads to committed action.  The friends of the paralytic did not give up and leave him when they were confronted with the crowd that barred them to Jesus.  On the contrary, they looked for ways and means to bring their friend to Jesus.  Faith without action is dead.  When Jesus “saw their faith,” it was their commitment to act on behalf of their paralyzed friend that amazed the Lord.  We need to develop in us this commitment to act lest our promised prayers for friends who are in need of our support are in fact our way of escaping from the call to do something.

Who may be that paralyzed friend whose needs silently beg for our empathy and whose helplessness asks for our commitment to act on his behalf? Who is out there whom we can lead to have a life-changing encounter with the forgiving God?

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